May 14, 2015

So It Begins....

Well, it's getting real.  The big move to The 8 Cow House is happening this weekend.  I'm not ready, but I'm not sure I ever will be.  We will be doing things on that house for years.  It's part of the fun, but I'm not going to lie, the day I close the door behind the last contractor, I will be a happy woman.  Don't get me wrong, our full time contractor is amazing and I have only had positive things to say about almost everyone else.  It's just that I'm reaching my limit with limbo and I will be glad to get back to the normal monotony of life.  My goal is for that to happen when the kids go back to school in August.

Part of my problem with change is that I humanize inanimate objects.  This house we are leaving has become a person of sorts to me.  My 5th child.  I'm sad I can't bring him with me.   While sitting around the dinner table tonight Greg asked the kids what their best memory was in this house.  Kidlet #2 said, "All of you!"  There are times I marvel at the wisdom of my children.  He is so right.  The memories and important things - the people in our homes - fortunately go with us.  Once they are all gone, all that is really left are 4 walls.  Those walls don't create the memories, it's the people who reside and enter them that do.

But for the memories created in these walls I thought I'd share some pictures of our home and describe exactly what we did while living here that has made it ours:

The Front Exterior:




When we bought this house I HATED the way it looked on the outside.  The brick drove me crazy and the original shutter and front door color of hunter green was something I tolerated for way too long.  A few summers ago I finally replaced those green shutters with dark brown and painted the front door an orangish color.  I LOVE driving up to it now.

The Study:



This room was the bane of my existence for so long.  Where the bird picture hangs use to be a large opening into the family room.  Have you ever tried to decorate and coordinate two sitting rooms right next to each other?  What is the point?  I finally closed it off and gave them both their own do purpose.  The desk along the far wall was for future homework to be done.  It never happened, but the idea was good.  It was a great music room and my children are developing into quite the musicians.

The Dining Room:




I have always claimed this space as "My Room".  Children were forbidden from running through it and no one but me was allowed to put their crap in it.  I feel that is my right as the keeper of the house.  I needed somewhere to claim as my own.  We have served many a dinner with family and friends at this table.  I love the chandelier and I will miss this room for it's tranquil beauty.

The Family Room:




This is the heart of our home.  The place where we have watched hours of movies, played games, read scriptures and said prayers as a family, and had many a family discussion.  When we first moved in the fireplace and built-ins were a dark wood color.  I wish I had painted them the day we moved in.  It changed the whole feeling of the room.  The window treatment was a handmade copycat by me and I still love it.  I was happy and content with this room when we put it on the market, but I know I could have done a lot more with more time.

The Kitchen:






My domain, the work horse of the house.  We peeled wallpaper off every inch of wall in this kitchen and painted the cabinets the first few months after moving in and I have never regretted it.  Had we stayed, this space would have gotten a major overhaul and I have no doubt would have been beautiful.  Unfortunately, the neighborhood just won't support what I would have liked to do and since we felt it was time to go, the vision will have to be someone else's to fulfill.  We added the decorative board and batten wall and the pantry doors were another great addition.  Hopefully the new owners will keep them.

The Laundry Room:



This was a labor of love by my sweet husband.  He doesn't really like doing diy projects, but was patient and did this one for me.  He worked hard and I have always loved it.  The cabinets were a Craigslist find and I love the way they make the room feel.


Well, that completes the first floor.  Sometime next week, I'll do the remainder of the house.  Like I said, it's moving week, so I'm a bit stretched for time.  I can't promise much in terms of consistency in posts at the moment, but if you stick around I will have plenty to share at a later date.

Have a great weekend!!

Have a great day everyone and go make some memories with the people in your 4 walls!

May 8, 2015

A Woman in a Man's World

"Remember no one can make you feel
inferior without your consent."
Eleanor Roosevelt


Today I thought I'd talk about how this experience has gone for me so far - in terms of my emotional health.  Redoing a house is not for the faint of heart and can be very stressful.  This whole process has been a dream come true for me, but it has been stressful.  Not only am I trying to coordinate everything that needs to happen at the new house, but I've had to maintain our current home, put it on the market, and go through the whole process of selling which is another can of worms.  All while taking care of 4 Kidlets and a hubby.  It's been a juggle at times but I think overall I'm doing ok.

One of the things I was most hesitant about in taking this project on was having to call and talk to different contractors.  In the work that is required to maintain a home, let alone  major renovations, help from professionals is often needed to ensure work is done properly.  Those who know me know that I'm no shrinking violet so picturing me having a hard time calling contractors may be a stretch for some, but it's true.  I think it all really comes down to the fact that I don't like to look stupid.  I have made phone calls in the past and at times been made to feel so stupid that it really unsettled me.  I'm certainly no Albert Einstein, but I'm not stupid.  I have often felt like saying, "I'm sorry I don't know exactly how XY&Z work since I don't do this EVERYDAY like you, but I'm willing to learn if you spend a little time to explain it to me!  Jerk!"  (The "Jerk" part would really only be said in my head of course ;)

A month or so ago I was at the house standing in our master bathroom with 3 contractors, all of whom were men.  We were discussing what the plans were for that space and everyone was weighing in on what to do.  As I drove away, I realized that in that very situation I wasn't the one with the most expertise, but I was the boss.  They were all working for me.  Since I don't currently work outside the home, that's not a position I find myself in very often - being a boss of men.  (Greg may disagree ;)

With the exception of a pair of female painters and a husband/wife painting pair, ALL the contractors I've associated with, interviewed, and hired, have been men.  I'm thankful that so far it has been a very positive experience.  But I have had to be sure to be straight forward and hold my ground when I may be getting pushed in a direction I may not feel comfortable going.  Everyone has an opinion and it's important to listen to them because these are professionals who do this every day and they have a lot of good advice.  But advice aside, I've had to make sure my end goal is still being met despite what the experts may think.

Fortunately before we took this house on, I did have experience handling less then cooperative contractors to give me a little practice and confidence in holding my own.  Last year we had a new sprinkler system put in at our current house.  Greg handled most of the interviews and appointments but was at work the day of the install.  The installer was a big burly guy and from the get-go, he started emotionally pushing me around.  There was some discussion on where exactly the access to the house should be and I knew Greg had an opinion but I wasn't able to reach him at work.  I told the contractor we may have to hold off  a day until we could figure it out.  He was very pushy and told me it HAD to happen THAT day.  I know contractors have schedules and we need to be sympathetic to that, but if something is being done to MY house and it's permanent, they will wait until I'm sure it's where I want it to be.  I could tell he was trying to push me around because I was a woman.  I was having none of it.  I told him we certainly D.I.D N.O.T have to do it, nor would we do it, until I was sure we were doing it right.  He backed down and didn't question me after that.

Like I said, so far this experience has been a fairly positive one (with the exception of the appraiser, which is a story for another day).  I do have to have confidence in myself and my choices which can be uncomfortable at times, but every time I am, every time I hold my ground and push a little bit into the faith area, I grow just a little more and gain faith not only in myself but this process as a whole.  It's truly been amazing.

I hope you all have a great weekend and take the time to truly honor the amazing women in your life - especially your mother!

Spiritual uplift HERE.

May 5, 2015

A Face Lift With a Suntan and Reader Advise Needed!

"It looks like it got a face lift and a suntan!", was the reaction of a friend after she drove by and saw the results of the power wash and new staining.  I have to agree.  It looks so much better!!

I have to admit though, since I see it everyday, the transformation doesn't seem as dramatic to me.  That's good and bad.  To me the progress seems slow and small at times.  But that is one reason I'm documenting all of this, so that in a year I can go back and see the dramatic changes.  Hopefully they will be more dramatic to me then.

Let's look at the exterior when we bought it:










I'm pretty sure the previous owner had this stained 30 years ago and then never did it again.  He stained it a dark cedar color which didn't really let the beauty of the cedar come through.  It also didn't allow for  the architecture of the house to be accentuated.  Everything blended together.

Since we had to push the power washing back due to the concrete going in first, it ended up taking much longer than we thought, but I'm glad.  Just power washing it lightened it up considerably.  Here are a few shots of that.

This first one you can see the power washed on the right  and the non-power washed on the left.


Here is the garage and part of the side of the house after it was power washed.  It looked so good I questioned staining it at all!



The original color I was going to do was called "Pecan".  The guy who stained it said that's all he ever does, but I didn't necessarily want "what everyone has" and when he put it up for me to see on a test piece, it did nothing for me.  It was just blah!  So after talking to him and thinking about it, we decided to add a bit of red.  I felt the house needed it to give it richness and depth.  I'm so glad I did.  I think it looks great and once the new trim color goes on, it will really make it pop!

Here is the house all done.  I will admit that photographing the front of this house is difficult because of the way the sun is.  The house faces north/south so the sun is always behind it a bit making it hard to get a shot that really brings out the architectural features of the front of the house.  But I can only do so much, right?










Now for the thing that has been keeping me up at night - literally!!  It seems like every night I have a dream about the trim color of this house.  We are having all the gutters, soffits, and fascia replaced next week and then in a few weeks I'm having all the trim around the windows and doors painted white.   I have taken my inspiration from homes like the following,








I could give you way more, but you get the idea.  I absolutely LOVE the look.  But, now I'm second guessing myself that it's going to look dumb.  Like the house will look like a clown house or it will be too much.  This is where I need your input reassurance that everything will look great.  Because even I need a little bit of back up every now and then.  It's a huge leap of faith.  I may hate it.  It may look funny, but I know I'd regret it in some form if I didn't try it.  We shall know the results by the end of next week!!  You'll know how it went if you go to find Nutella and there is none to be found.  I will be in a Nutella coma somewhere in a dark corner.  

Let's hope it doesn't come to that!

May 4, 2015

A Birthday and Back Patio Reveal

Hope you all had a great weekend.  Our's was a fairly low key affair and one that found out kidlet #1 turning double digits!!  I can't believe I've been a mother for 10 years!!!   The big event for her was getting her ears pierced.  She was nervous, but did great.  Luckily she is a super responsible girl so she makes sure her cleanings get done and I know she will do well with them.

Before....

After....


Always "supportive" brothers....


Love those kids!!

Let's get back to the house!  Along with the front path being redone, you will recall we had the back patio done as well.  Here is what it looked like when we moved in:



Here is what it looked like when we had it all ripped out and then prepped it for pour:






Then during the pour:




All done!!!!




I have no doubt this will be a spot of many a parties.  It will be a great space to have for blessing others and our families lives for hopefully many years!  You also got a peak at the new stained siding.  That reveal will be tomorrow!